Welcome to City-Data.com Forum!
U.S. CitiesCity-Data Forum Index
Go Back   City-Data Forum > Blogs > Been crapped on one too many times
 [Register]
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
Doesn't seem possible for people to respect one another nowadays.

Came into this world to make it better and tell the truth and nobody can respect the human inside... only attack someone for their opinions. You are a world of cowards and attackers. I am going to kill myself. I'm not afraid of death at all and I will go back to where I cam from, GOD.

I may be "autistic" but at least I'm not a bully and never have been. I do feel that the bullies and nasty people of this world have some responsibility for my death. I have tried everything, from meditation to counseling of all varieties, to developing myself as a person only to be crapped on by people and hated. No I don't feel "sorry" for myself. I'm going oto end my life and I hope you all feel better about yourselves. Bye
Rating: 3 votes, 3.33 average.

This needs to stop.

Posted 03-02-2015 at 10:47 AM by MeteoFlan


[URL]https://www.city-data.com/forum/weather/2153534-things-c-d-weather-forum-members-24.html[/URL]

There we have a sad example of childish immaturity.

Some people clearly don't know when they've crossed that line, when funny becomes rude, insulting and obnoxious. From the same "gang" on the weather forum who have made a joke of such things as Aspergers etc.... we have (no surprise) more attempts to effect a rise out of people.

I love funny things. I spend a lot of my spare time enjoying humour, and being funny myself (almost everybody loves my humour too, at least face to face - the internet has an interesting way of disguising your intentions with comments, etcetera.)

But I DO NOT find personal attacks, jibes, such as have been seen in threads like the above (posts deleted because I reported them) funny.

If you can't recognise the difference between good all inclusive humour that people can share, and singling out and insulting certain people backhandedly, then you have a lot of growing up to do. Mummy and Daddy probably shouldn't be letting you use the computer.

My mistake has been to react to people like this in the past, getting myself in trouble. Now, I will offer you fools who do this NO recognition. No "rise". I don't answer to anybody. Bye bye.

So get a life and grow up, kids. Stop abusing others.
Posted in Uncategorized
Views 2200 Comments 9
Total Comments 9

Comments

  1. Old Comment
    Interesting to now. At least with me the effects of the "condition" for lack of a better word, have been just as severe in adult life. I'm not sure the condition ever really goes away, and it affects all people differently anyhow, which is why I don't like it when some people I've spoken to generalise/make ignorant jokes about it, and also associate it with lower intelligence (well known of cause that people with it have higher than average IQ).
    permalink
    Posted 03-04-2015 at 10:55 AM by MeteoFlan MeteoFlan is offline
  2. Old Comment
    @MeteoFlan
    It definitely seems like virtually everyone with some Autism-Spectrum disorder is an outcast from society, just because those who are autistic have slightly different responses to social situations/interaction. I have been told that I have Autism and Asperger's Syndrome, (I don't know why a trained psychologist couldn't distinguish the two of these, so I suposedly have both psychological "disorders", which makes no sense at all), and have scored high on IQ tests; nobody has ever been able to explain that, ironically. Many physicians treat their Autistic adult patients as if they were children. It shows how flawed the "civilized" world's medical industry is, possibly leading to more misunderstandings about Autistic people. When medical "professionals" are confronted about this, in addition to many other flaws with modernized medical systems being addressed in their presence, in any way, shape, or form, they often get angry. Basically, my point is that the medical industry possibly plays a large role in society's general distaste for people who have these "disorders."
    permalink
    Posted 03-04-2015 at 08:48 PM by Timemachineman Timemachineman is offline
  3. Old Comment
    @MeteoFlan
    Sorry, I'm new to internet forums, is typing "@MeteoFlan" to respond to a previous post the correct method?
    permalink
    Posted 03-04-2015 at 08:53 PM by Timemachineman Timemachineman is offline
  4. Old Comment
    Hi Timemachineman

    On the bottom left of each comment is a speech bubble which you can click on to quote somebody you are responding to, but you can just do @username... since it takes less space.

    I agree with your observations. The vast majority of autism spectrum support here is directed and aimed at children as if it's something that one just grows out of. I've read books by doctors and medical "professionals" who were so ignorant about this condition regarding adults it was unbelievable. One made such people out to be criminally minded idiots who would simply end up in jail!

    Clearly I would know more than those without the condition that due to the outwards appearance the autism gives you, other people can't interpret you properly. All sorts of frustrations and problems, including ostracisation develops at work/social life, and you end up bullied or ignored, or suffer meltdowns/anger issues which I've dealt with. Of course most people just assume you're being a pathetic immature moron when in fact there are ways that people can learn to interact with you if they understood the condition. It's not like we choose to have it, so we can't just pretend we don't have it to "fit in". That's not going to happen. It's like telling someone with one leg to grow another one.
    permalink
    Posted 03-06-2015 at 06:55 AM by MeteoFlan MeteoFlan is offline
  5. Old Comment
    That annoys me too.

    People use the term to describe things they think abnormal in any way these days.

    It annoys me when I hear people on the radio, on the tv, wherever, using the term "autistic" freely to describe stereotypical anti-social characteristics (often times ones that autistic people don't have anyway....). Ignorance gone mad.
    permalink
    Posted 03-07-2015 at 04:42 PM by MeteoFlan MeteoFlan is offline
  6. Old Comment
    @MeteoFlan
    Thanks for the help.
    permalink
    Posted 03-08-2015 at 11:20 PM by Timemachineman Timemachineman is offline
  7. Old Comment
    There's a classmate of mine who's from Sudan who stares at people for a long time sometimes (a few seconds longer than they'd wish), he has a funny accent when he talks, and has an introverted personality; almost all of his classes are special- ed. classes. He has very few problems making friends, or decent grades, as I've been told by him since I've known him. There are many similar cases like this at my school, and I go to a supposedly good school. There are students who actually need the individual attention of the teachers in those classes much more than most other students would to have a decent education, and the school's resources are being wasted! From what people at other public high schools have told me, it goes on in other places too. I wonder WHY this is happening though, and who's responsible, ultimately. Sorry, I think I got a little off topic. Constant misdiagnosis and students who need help in certain areas and not getting it, practically being ignored, just annoys me a lot, and I figured this would probably be a good place to discuss these problems.
    permalink
    Posted 03-08-2015 at 11:52 PM by Timemachineman Timemachineman is offline
  8. Old Comment
    [quote=Timemachineman;bt59027]There's a classmate of mine who's from Sudan who stares at people for a long time sometimes (a few seconds longer than they'd wish), he has a funny accent when he talks, and has an introverted personality; almost all of his classes are special- ed. classes. He has very few problems making friends, or decent grades, as I've been told by him since I've known him. There are many similar cases like this at my school, and I go to a supposedly good school. There are students who actually need the individual attention of the teachers in those classes much more than most other students would to have a decent education, and the school's resources are being wasted! From what people at other public high schools have told me, it goes on in other places too. I wonder WHY this is happening though, and who's responsible, ultimately. Sorry, I think I got a little off topic. Constant misdiagnosis and students who need help in certain areas and not getting it, practically being ignored, just annoys me a lot, and I figured this would probably be a good place to discuss these problems.[/quote]

    No it's totally relevant. I had a similar experience at my school. I was seen as an idiot/freak whatever by both teachers and students and never got the right type of teaching/attention to deal with my problem. The more social problems I had a school the worse my grades became and in the end I was seen as the disgrace of the school. I was sick of all the bullying I encountered and how nobody did anything about that either.
    permalink
    Posted 03-09-2015 at 07:12 AM by MeteoFlan MeteoFlan is offline
  9. Old Comment

    Hello

    Does anybody watch this thread anymore? I see it’s about 7 yrs old…?


    Quote:
    Originally Posted by MeteoFlan View Comment
    Hi Timemachineman


    I agree with your observations. The vast majority of autism spectrum support here is directed and aimed at children as if it's something that one just grows out of. I've read books by doctors and medical "professionals" who were so ignorant about this condition regarding adults it was unbelievable. One made such people out to be criminally minded idiots who would simply end up in jail!

    Clearly I would know more than those without the condition that due to the outwards appearance the autism gives you, other people can't interpret you properly. All sorts of frustrations and problems, including ostracisation develops at work/social life, and you end up bullied or ignored, or suffer meltdowns/anger issues which I've dealt with. Of course most people just assume you're being a pathetic immature moron when in fact there are ways that people can learn to interact with you if they understood the condition. It's not like we choose to have it, so we can't just pretend we don't have it to "fit in". That's not going to happen. It's like telling someone with one leg to grow another one.
    permalink
    Posted 01-15-2022 at 12:42 PM by 40Below 40Below is offline
 

All times are GMT -6. The time now is 05:23 PM.

© 2005-2024, Advameg, Inc. · Please obey Forum Rules · Terms of Use and Privacy Policy · Bug Bounty

City-Data.com - Contact Us - Archive 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37 - Top