Siblings hating each other
Posted 07-17-2011 at 08:03 AM by tweetie909
Why do siblings get to a point or so mad that they start to hate each other. I guess it would have to go back to how your parent raised you and what they taught you coming up.
Siblings and family members cannot get along when it comes to money and greed will never get you anywhere. My sister has always shown hatred towards me and I am trying to understand why?
I think there is something going on within her inner self and she is taking it out on me or something I don't know; I just don't know
Siblings and family members cannot get along when it comes to money and greed will never get you anywhere. My sister has always shown hatred towards me and I am trying to understand why?
I think there is something going on within her inner self and she is taking it out on me or something I don't know; I just don't know
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Mine Too! I think you are right it is the way we were raised but it also goes to character. My mother always played favorites. My sister was the favorite and ate it up. My best friend was the favorite but her sister did everything to make things different and so did my best friend. They are close. My sister is full of herself and one of the most unhappy people I have ever seen. I have not spoken to her, I don't know her phone number, and I hate her attitude. Just remember it's not you it is your sibling! They have something wrong inside. Who knows what it is. There is nothing wrong with you. All you can do is be the best person you can be and if you are not happy with the family you were born in to choose your family. I'm sorry your're going through this. I know how bad it hurts and has kept me away from my ailing parents and other family and it hurts. I think time may heal and forgiveness goes along way. Try to reach out-trust me it's hard and you may not get an answer but you know you are doing the right thing. Hang in there.Posted 07-17-2011 at 02:51 PM by tlheiskill
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My sisters (both) hate my guts and bring there spouses , children and all the relatives to there side of the fence leaving me and my children isolated..
It started 30 plus years ago by our father that embellished all the stories about me stating that I was the worst person ever to walk this planet..
I've never been arrested nor re hab nor any real reasons for them to hate me other then they have much much more money then I have ..
He claimed to buy me a new corvette he claimed I made him give me millions ,he claimed I married wrong , he claimed I did nothing but hound him for money non stop . He told these stories to everybody who would listen and every time the stories got more exaggerated .. He claimed to give me the world but in Actuality it was just the opposite where he got arrested , I made him money , but he never told those stories ..he never told the story about me taking care of our mother for 3-1/2 years every day in the care facility. . He lied about his war record .he lied about his stealing from an estate and got caught red handed but lied his way out claiming it was a honest mistake ..he didn't need the money as he had millions but only to give it to the rich grand daughter for a wedding party that I wasn't even invited to .. He boasted non stop what an idiot I was for every thing I've done ..I was 61 when he died and to his last days wouldn't take my phone calls as he thought I would ask him for money so I never called .
Our father was a holocaust survivor and possibly took out his hate of life on me..all his family members were lost so possibly he took that anger out.. I never lashed out at him and took the silent approach as it was easier ..
Our father caterered to my sisters , gave them money when they didn't need it and watched me suffer as I have nothing but a steady income that will never get me rich ..
I would love some comments what to do as our father just died a few months ago with a substantial amount of assets that is suppose to be divided 3 ways and of course knowing that we don't get along makes mynsisternthe executor of the estate ..
I can't fight her legally as I will lose and don't have any money for an attorney and even tried to find one to work on a contingency to no avail..
All sense of logic go out the window when dealing with this ***** from hell as I've tried nicenes , I've tried it all and the only thing I can think of is planting my butt on her curb and making her look at me non stop until she relents ..
She lives in SoCal and I live in NorCal and I see it on tv that they hate us and we hate them just for having a different zip code ..
What am I suppose to do?? The other sisters husband works for the B F H so she is her puppet where she claims she's not but when I ask her I get the "I don't know" "I I really don't know" " I don't know what to tell you"
I know what the law says about she is suppose to mail me something about the estate but yet to receive anything ..
He added there names to all his bank accounts but some are in certain type of accounts where it's suppose to stay until his death and then liquidated ...
Please tell me what to do and all suggestions and I will do whatever it takes and pay someone to help me big time ..
They have retail stores all over the country and was thinking about hiring people to hold signs that say. Your brother loves you Not anything threatening ... So anybody have any ideas please email me and we can discuss the options and will share the wealth ...Posted 05-27-2015 at 08:08 PM by True believer 351
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Help with the sister from H e lL
My sisters (both) hate my guts and bring there spouses , children and all the relatives to there side of the fence leaving me and my children isolated..
It started 30 plus years ago by our father that embellished all the stories about me stating that I was the worst person ever to walk this planet..
I've never been arrested nor re hab nor any real reasons for them to hate me other then they have much much more money then I have ..
He claimed to buy me a new corvette he claimed I made him give me millions ,he claimed I married wrong , he claimed I did nothing but hound him for money non stop . He told these stories to everybody who would listen and every time the stories got more exaggerated .. He claimed to give me the world but in Actuality it was just the opposite where he got arrested , I made him money , but he never told those stories ..he never told the story about me taking care of our mother for 3-1/2 years every day in the care facility. . He lied about his war record .he lied about his stealing from an estate and got caught red handed but lied his way out claiming it was a honest mistake ..he didn't need the money as he had millions but only to give it to the rich grand daughter for a wedding party that I wasn't even invited to .. He boasted non stop what an idiot I was for every thing I've done ..I was 61 when he died and to his last days wouldn't take my phone calls as he thought I would ask him for money so I never called .
Our father was a holocaust survivor and possibly took out his hate of life on me..all his family members were lost so possibly he took that anger out.. I never lashed out at him and took the silent approach as it was easier ..
Our father caterered to my sisters , gave them money when they didn't need it and watched me suffer as I have nothing but a steady income that will never get me rich ..
I would love some comments what to do as our father just died a few months ago with a substantial amount of assets that is suppose to be divided 3 ways and of course knowing that we don't get along makes mynsisternthe executor of the estate ..
I can't fight her legally as I will lose and don't have any money for an attorney and even tried to find one to work on a contingency to no avail..
All sense of logic go out the window when dealing with this ***** from hell as I've tried nicenes , I've tried it all and the only thing I can think of is planting my butt on her curb and making her look at me non stop until she relents ..
She lives in SoCal and I live in NorCal and I see it on tv that they hate us and we hate them just for having a different zip code ..
What am I suppose to do?? The other sisters husband works for the B F H so she is her puppet where she claims she's not but when I ask her I get the "I don't know" "I I really don't know" " I don't know what to tell you"
I know what the law says about she is suppose to mail me something about the estate but yet to receive anything ..
He added there names to all his bank accounts but some are in certain type of accounts where it's suppose to stay until his death and then liquidated ...
Please tell me what to do and all suggestions and I will do whatever it takes and pay someone to help me big time ..
They have retail stores all over the country and was thinking about hiring people to hold signs that say. Your brother loves you Not anything threatening ... So anybody have any ideas please email me and we can discuss the options and will share the wealth .. Email me at andthenthereisone@yahoo.com please keep in mind all normality does not work and I'm not suggesting nor soliciting anything illegal .
Any rabbi's out there that can talk to her?Posted 05-28-2015 at 02:10 AM by True believer 351
Updated 05-28-2015 at 02:12 AM by True believer 351 (Typo,errors,)
