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I still love her

Posted 05-07-2012 at 06:49 AM by curvis


I met this woman in January and I felt that we connected spiritually. So, we began communicating a lot and I started to develop more and more feeling for quickly. I ended up meeting her in Alabama and we had a great week of fun and really enjoying each others company, also we mad thought we wanted to be together and so we made a vow to the Lord that we was married by God until we could meet in North Carolina to marry there. I eventually went to North Carolina and before I did I was honest about my financial situation because I had closed my furniture the previous year and was still dealing with a lot of debt and my consulting business was very slow so my income was little. She said no problem that we would work things out just move there. I moved on March 11th of this year. I was just really enjoying life looking for work and trying to bring structure to her and her five kids. Everything was going great she bragging about what all I have done with her and how she felt that she knew God had sent me into her life. Well, two week ago she told me that we needed to talk and she started telling me that she loved me, but was in-love with her ex boyfriend who she has two kids for. So we talked and she said that she knew the devil was trying to get her off tracked and that she was embarrassed that she had even had the thoughts. So, the next day came and she talked with my homegirl and she stated to her that she knew this guy really didn't love her and he was doing all these things because I was there. She hangs up the phone and says that she was going to tell the ex that she was done and not to call her or contact her anymore. When she called him he got pissed and started cursing and making threats and then she looked at me and asked for my ring. Then later that day she text me and said she went and got married to him. Wow! I was hurt. The next day she text and says "what i've done? i can't believe this happened, I'm hurt" she also told me she had no peace. So, the next day she calls and says she was sorry and wanted to be with me so she left him and came to me then we left town and went to her grandmothers to talk. We talked about how she was controlled by a spirit that he had over her. so we went back home and things was going great again. Then this past thursday she told me that she was going to talk to him and let him know to his face that it was over and why she didn't want to be with him. Thirty-five minutes she calls off his phone to tell me that I needed to get out her house immediately remind you I moved there from Louisiana had sold my truck to cut back on expenses and knew nobody in the town.So, I had to leave with the shirt on my back and the shoes on my feet and take off waling down the street. i went to the homeless shelter and had to leave there because the had no beds and luckily i contact the pastor of the church i was attending and he came and got me and his church paid for two nights for me at a motel. I still love her and feel that she was the one. I seen what she really wanted to become and I seen so much potential in her. Can someone please, help and give me your honest opinion. She called me yesterday and stated that she was unhappy and I ask her was she trying to leave and she said yes. I am so confused because I was in-love with her. What should I do?
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  1. Old Comment
    This lady is a whacko, and no matter how much you love her, she will never be 'yours' entirely.

    Its a shame 'she' didnt move to you, in stead of the other way around, because your 'stuck' with no job, and no prospects.

    Get back home and start all over again. Renew your old contacts and see if you can get a new start in life, your Church should be able to help you in that regards.

    Its been a life experience for you, take it and tuck it in the pockets of experiences that you have under your belt and leave it at that.

    I wish you well...

    Jesse
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    Posted 05-08-2012 at 08:38 AM by woodworkingmenace woodworkingmenace is offline
  2. Old Comment
    thanks. she has been contacting me all this week about how unhappy she is.
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    Posted 05-08-2012 at 09:56 AM by curvis curvis is offline
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    With her, its going to be a never ending cycle of you and her Ex. Get out while the getting is good, and dont look behind.
    She is too 'messed up' if she cant pick or choose, between you and her Ex, and this is a lesson in futility, if you persue this venue.

    I wish you well...

    Jesse
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    Posted 05-08-2012 at 01:59 PM by woodworkingmenace woodworkingmenace is offline
 

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