Dating married man going thru divorce
Posted 04-07-2010 at 04:04 PM by Butterfly2675
I'm dating a guy who is going through a divorce. He has been seperated from his soon to be ex wife since April 09. In South Carolina they have a law that you are not to date for a year while going through a divorce. We have been dating since December, but have kept "us" in hiding. Although, I have met most of his friends and family, I have not met his two children (14 & 16) or his soon to be ex wife. He stays the night with me almost every night that he doesn't have his kids. When he has his kids (Sunday's and Thursday's) he will still come over for a few minutes just to see me. His year is up April 20th. They cannot agree on the split of assets so they are going through mediation, scheduled for May 12th, because they don't want the court to decide what they get. I don't know how long to wait in hiding. This could go on for a LONG time. I knew from the beginning that his year date is April 20th, but now I have to wait until May 12th. I know 3 more weeks isn't going to hurt and I am willing to wait because I love him. But now, we had plans to go to the beach next weekend. He called today to tell me that his soon to be ex wife is going out of town and he will have the kids, so we can't go. The soon to be ex wife went out of town last weekend and the weekend before. I have hardly seen him the past two weeks. I know he loves his kids, but I feel like he should let his soon to be ex wife know that he has plans. He has cancelled a few other things to accomodate her, but this weekend trip was supposed to be special. I don't want to be LAST on his list. Does it sound like he is backing out?
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Click here - Main Forums to search all of our forums and sub-forums. You will be glad that you did!Posted 04-08-2010 at 08:55 PM by 2goldens
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i dont thinks he's backing out, i think that he really wants his kids so he's going to get every chance that he can because what if they decide to stay with thier mom which is a 9/10 chance... you hung in there for so long dont give up, it'll be like giving up on love and true love is soooo hard to find because most people today are living off LUST!!!! but in a way i understand that you dont want to be placed last, let him know how you feel but try not to sound selfish (like you wanna get placed before his kids) because when it comes to kids you can see a whole new side of people no mater how well you think you know em'.Posted 06-07-2010 at 12:35 AM by flawdagurl
