ON: Parents are refusing to let me move in with my girlfriend
Posted 12-23-2020 at 09:12 AM by Blondebaerde
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Originally Posted by LandscapeAritst
Here is some background on me personally. I am 31 and have high functioning autism. I have been dating my girlfriend for over a year and we are very much in love with each other. She offered me to move in with her but my parents absolutely refused to let me do that.
I have "high functioning Autism," too, or believe so based on various self-testing batteries and observation across the decades. I really don't care, it's mildly amusing to me, but explains so much.
I'm a bit OT here, but it's a key point. Putting one's fate (guardianship) into the hands of some woman is the last thing on Earth anyone should do, I mean people like you and me in particular It's a massive setup to fail, for reasons too vast for this thread.
Do not "move in" with some woman because we're "in love." That's a false feeling that won't last, and won't serve your purposes over the long term. Emotions like that are fundamentally difficult to process by Aspies/Autistic types. They have agendas that conflict with those of men, I can't see one of us lasting in a marriage for more than a couple years. They become despondent because the lights are on and no one's home, and suddenly are taking legal action against you and more importantly your assets.
You'll get fleeced, badly. Study up on Crimson Capsule theory, research it thoroughly then just walk off and find another if you insist. They're a dime a dozen, with highly unrealistic expectations these days about what a man should actual BE in thier lives. If you get fleeced, you'll lose god knows how much of your assets, I've seen it happen to three close friends (and I don't have that many close friends, to say the least). And two of those are well on the way to Round 2 of miserable failure, though neither fully comprehends this yet. They both look like broken down old men at 54 and 44, respectively, which is demented and sad. And, directly related to their "relationships" which are worse than taking small doses of arsenic in the morning tea for years.
Not the woman's fault, exactly: they're confused by social conventions these days and make very poor decisions based on ridiculous expectations. I hold them little ill-will, just keep them well away from my wallet and god forbid moving into my gorgeous home.
