Letting go of a Sense of Duty and Responsibity to actual true and real Love....

In reality many of us do not feel the need to give real love or be the true Loving people that we were created to be, by having the capacity to honestly 'feel' like loving the people we are 'suppose' to Love; such as our kids, our parents, grand parents, husbands, wives, etc.! In perspective, I feel that in each and every relationship, We are spiritually tested, by our authenticity, regarding, Our Feelings of Love. Yet in society it seems as if the very moment that 'Love' ceases from being a true feeling and recruits itself to being or considered a 'Responsibility'...... In all honesty we have lost the actual meaning of 'Real Love' and cannot honestly expand or mature emotionally nor spiritually by Life's standards. We get to a point whereas we do not make time for our parents out of real concern, but use an excuse, of "Well they were responsible for our procreation" whereas that is the only reason some of us even make an attempt to even be bothered with them, even our grand parents. Then some of us honestly do not embrace our children with the true love of simply making or spending quality time with them, such as reading to them, giving them hugs, actually listening to them, having this attitude of simply providing their bare necessities out of a sense of duty. By giving off this, "We feel We mean well, but We have this sense of Duty or Responsibility to do it!" Also giving off this feeling of obligation to our spouses because of vows we made. We must understand that real Love is not just a responsibility, But a Family with real Love and required dedicated 'commitment', as well as true and real Feelings. Until we separate Responsibility or duty to honorable Real and true love, We can never expand from those diverse terrains....into truly mature human beings, with the honest capacity for loving others. I cannot emphasize the grave importance of Love, Emotionally, Spiritually, Physically, and Mentally being honestly able to pass each test that is placed before us. Today....I ask, that out of true and real Love, go to your parents and listen to them regardless of their shortcomings, take a little time to reminisce of the good times you shared and enjoyed together, call your grandparents to let them know you love them, give your kids a great big hug and tell your better half that you both are going to have some quiet one on one time, to listen to one another with sincerity and love. I feel that if you open your heart out of love....those feelings of duty, obligations, or a Responsibility shall disappear because once you honestly open your heart, the true meaning of Love will fill your spirit once again. Tomorrow is never promised but our Love is a guarantee, that will last till eternity!