This blog is basically to chart my progress in trying to lose weight...
This is a Record of my daily events including my family when appropriate for my other family members to see if they choose to.
This is my legacy, for my family to read after I am dead and burried. So, any thing on here is meant for them only and if it offends anyone, my apologies, but, its not meant for you and them
Chow for now...
May the LORD Bless all who see this.
I wish you well...
Jesse
This is a Record of my daily events including my family when appropriate for my other family members to see if they choose to.
This is my legacy, for my family to read after I am dead and burried. So, any thing on here is meant for them only and if it offends anyone, my apologies, but, its not meant for you and them
Chow for now...
May the LORD Bless all who see this.
I wish you well...
Jesse
My Days
Posted 08-03-2011 at 11:21 AM by woodworkingmenace
The fight I had with my Daughter, is something I will remember for the rest of my life.
She disrespects our family, and hates the thought of 'being' here anymore. When my Daughter called my Wife a 'B' and me a S.O.B... that was the end for me. It ripped the heart right out of me!
With my Heart Disease, and other problems I have, I have learned to live with them, and am trying to overcome them, each and every day. But, when someone rips your heart out, and your reason for living, then its a tough act to get over, and come back from...
I lived my life, for my kids. Both my Son and Daughter. Working my butt off, doing all th over time I could to pay Doctors and Medical bills off, so that they would have a 'normal' life.
Granted, I did miss a lot of activities that they were involved in, but, thats life. I tried to be there as much as I could.
My Wife on the other hand, has been to everything, and has stayed months and months in the hospital with both of the kids. And to have my Daughter 'verbally abuse' her was a bit too much for me, so, I threw her out!!
As I always find out, there is an 'enabler' in the house when you have a rotten child. Every family has one, knowingly or not, but, to have a child who believes the Sun rises and sets on them, then someone has to be feeding them the nonesense, and that is either one of the Parents, Grandparents, or Friend of the Family.
My Wife brought my Daughter back into the house, after I gave her the boot. She continues to buy her 'stuff' to keep her quiet. (My Daughters biggest thing, was that she place on her FaceBook, "My Family has cut me off...no more money!!")
OH GEEE... Like, GO GET A JOB!!
I had one when I was sixteen, and my Wife had a job when she was eighteen and we worked ever since. The only time I was on unemployment was when I came out of the Marines and went to College for a semester, then found out it wasnt for me, and went to work, instead.
My Daughter will start (we hope), College in two weeks, and if she goes through with it, then we will put up with ehr shenanagans..(why not? We been putting up with them all through High School!!).
Hopefully, she will learn that College is a different animal, then High School, and she will make friends up there, and drop the nutty friends she has already, gathered around her.
I cant stop loving my Daughter, nor my Son (who always respected us, and my Daughter is extreemely jelous of, cause he causes us no grief, and she hates that we get along with him so well).
I have stopped living for my Children now!
I live for that lovely woman whom I married 32 years ago, and still love more each day, as the days wind down for me.
It took a lot out of me, that fight between my Daugher and me, I was sick for a week and a half... Im on the mend now, and I have learned to just ignore her a bit more now.
I love you 'luvbug', but, your not the Daughter, your Mother and I raised, your the product of your friends influences, influences that we cant fight, nor do we want to fight anymore. If they want you, then you can spend as much time as you want 'with them', and we wont complain.
Your over 18, and an adult. I pray that you start growing up, and acting like one.
I wish you well...
Jesse
She disrespects our family, and hates the thought of 'being' here anymore. When my Daughter called my Wife a 'B' and me a S.O.B... that was the end for me. It ripped the heart right out of me!
With my Heart Disease, and other problems I have, I have learned to live with them, and am trying to overcome them, each and every day. But, when someone rips your heart out, and your reason for living, then its a tough act to get over, and come back from...
I lived my life, for my kids. Both my Son and Daughter. Working my butt off, doing all th over time I could to pay Doctors and Medical bills off, so that they would have a 'normal' life.
Granted, I did miss a lot of activities that they were involved in, but, thats life. I tried to be there as much as I could.
My Wife on the other hand, has been to everything, and has stayed months and months in the hospital with both of the kids. And to have my Daughter 'verbally abuse' her was a bit too much for me, so, I threw her out!!
As I always find out, there is an 'enabler' in the house when you have a rotten child. Every family has one, knowingly or not, but, to have a child who believes the Sun rises and sets on them, then someone has to be feeding them the nonesense, and that is either one of the Parents, Grandparents, or Friend of the Family.
My Wife brought my Daughter back into the house, after I gave her the boot. She continues to buy her 'stuff' to keep her quiet. (My Daughters biggest thing, was that she place on her FaceBook, "My Family has cut me off...no more money!!")
OH GEEE... Like, GO GET A JOB!!
I had one when I was sixteen, and my Wife had a job when she was eighteen and we worked ever since. The only time I was on unemployment was when I came out of the Marines and went to College for a semester, then found out it wasnt for me, and went to work, instead.
My Daughter will start (we hope), College in two weeks, and if she goes through with it, then we will put up with ehr shenanagans..(why not? We been putting up with them all through High School!!).
Hopefully, she will learn that College is a different animal, then High School, and she will make friends up there, and drop the nutty friends she has already, gathered around her.
I cant stop loving my Daughter, nor my Son (who always respected us, and my Daughter is extreemely jelous of, cause he causes us no grief, and she hates that we get along with him so well).
I have stopped living for my Children now!
I live for that lovely woman whom I married 32 years ago, and still love more each day, as the days wind down for me.
It took a lot out of me, that fight between my Daugher and me, I was sick for a week and a half... Im on the mend now, and I have learned to just ignore her a bit more now.
I love you 'luvbug', but, your not the Daughter, your Mother and I raised, your the product of your friends influences, influences that we cant fight, nor do we want to fight anymore. If they want you, then you can spend as much time as you want 'with them', and we wont complain.
Your over 18, and an adult. I pray that you start growing up, and acting like one.
I wish you well...
Jesse
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