You're probably not gay if....but might be if and when you...
Posted 07-21-2011 at 09:47 PM by Time and Space
Your probably not gay if you enjoy dressing up as a 'woman' for the sole purpose of self expression, or seeing yourself in a 'different light'...
Or even if you just wish you were a female, or think you are...(speaking to males)...
But you might be 'gay' if, your sole purpose of dressing up as a female, is to attract men...
Then you might be 'gay'...
A male or female struggling or decisive about gender identity or gender roles, doesn't make the said person 'gay'...
Many things have been branded 'gay'...when if you really think about it, they really aren't...
Fashion preference doesn't make one 'gay'...
If God wanted all males to be dull and bland, why was the peacock created?
The Peacock is 100% male, and performs it's intended purpose well...but yet, if a male human, were adorned in such a elaboratly colorful outfit, the first words or thoughts of his peers would be..
"Oh look at them, they must be gay"...
Why?
Is the Peacock bird above gay? or other colorfully adorned male birds...
Or here, you have a colorfully feathered male pheasant, feeding next to it's dull colored mate...by Western society standards, I guess the male pheasant would be 'gay'...a 'homosexual'...but who made it that way?
Did man design it's DNA?
And why is that true of so many bird species, that the male is often the colorful one?
It's suggestive trap that many males in this society fall into, and a suggestive trap that has led many down the 'gay' path, who should of never gone that way...and who were simply trying to be expressive, and have fun.
Check this out...
Todd looks at Charlie, Todd observes Charlie has 'cute' feminine features...Todd feels his body chemistry changing...
So Todd convinces himself that Charlie must be gay, since Charlie made Todd react...
Truth is, Charlie was minding their own business, and it's not Charlies fault how Todd reacted to them...
If anything it's Todd who might be 'gay'...
Or better yet, maybe Todd was reacting to a universalism standard of beauty, that the base nature of man responds to whether male or female...
But believe it or not, most males are 'gay', cause they prefer other 'males'...
'Fems' are despised in many gay circles...
I've had a few gay males write or tell me that 'If I wanted a female, I'd date one'..
Look, there's many layers to this, I've just started off with one, and kind of drifted...more to come though...
In summary...a condenced version of the above...
If a guy wears a dress, and feels the need to look 'pretty'...it does not mean they're 'gay'...
But if he does so with the sole purpose of attracting another male...than they probably are.
Or are they??
To be continued...
Or even if you just wish you were a female, or think you are...(speaking to males)...
But you might be 'gay' if, your sole purpose of dressing up as a female, is to attract men...
Then you might be 'gay'...
A male or female struggling or decisive about gender identity or gender roles, doesn't make the said person 'gay'...
Many things have been branded 'gay'...when if you really think about it, they really aren't...
Fashion preference doesn't make one 'gay'...
If God wanted all males to be dull and bland, why was the peacock created?
The Peacock is 100% male, and performs it's intended purpose well...but yet, if a male human, were adorned in such a elaboratly colorful outfit, the first words or thoughts of his peers would be..
"Oh look at them, they must be gay"...
Why?
Is the Peacock bird above gay? or other colorfully adorned male birds...
Or here, you have a colorfully feathered male pheasant, feeding next to it's dull colored mate...by Western society standards, I guess the male pheasant would be 'gay'...a 'homosexual'...but who made it that way?
Did man design it's DNA?
And why is that true of so many bird species, that the male is often the colorful one?
It's suggestive trap that many males in this society fall into, and a suggestive trap that has led many down the 'gay' path, who should of never gone that way...and who were simply trying to be expressive, and have fun.
Check this out...
Todd looks at Charlie, Todd observes Charlie has 'cute' feminine features...Todd feels his body chemistry changing...
So Todd convinces himself that Charlie must be gay, since Charlie made Todd react...
Truth is, Charlie was minding their own business, and it's not Charlies fault how Todd reacted to them...
If anything it's Todd who might be 'gay'...
Or better yet, maybe Todd was reacting to a universalism standard of beauty, that the base nature of man responds to whether male or female...
But believe it or not, most males are 'gay', cause they prefer other 'males'...
'Fems' are despised in many gay circles...
I've had a few gay males write or tell me that 'If I wanted a female, I'd date one'..
Look, there's many layers to this, I've just started off with one, and kind of drifted...more to come though...
In summary...a condenced version of the above...
If a guy wears a dress, and feels the need to look 'pretty'...it does not mean they're 'gay'...
But if he does so with the sole purpose of attracting another male...than they probably are.
Or are they??
To be continued...
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I think I can positively say without doubt....that I am not 'gay'.....
I've examined myself long enough, thoroughly enough, and in different enviornments, to feel confident in saying that....
There was a time where maybe I thought I was, or could have been...but I know now I'm not....
And I'll explain why I think I know this with certainty in the next post....Posted 10-04-2011 at 10:02 AM by Time and Space
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- Admiting or acknowledging that someone of your same gender is cute, sexy or attractive....does not mean your 'gay'...
- If your a male, and desire to carry a purse, and or like bright colorful things, that does not mean your gay
- 100 people can 'think' your gay, but because they think it, doesn't make it true...
- 100 people can think your Hetrosexual, but because they think it, doesn't make it true...
Regardless of what 'pop' media shows...
Being gay is still frowned upon in most communities across this nation and world...it's still a very big, heavy social stigma to carry around, to much for many to bear, so they hide it....
From watching TV you would think every other guy is openly gay, and treated like a celebrity....not so...not even close....
To be continued...Posted 10-04-2011 at 04:02 PM by Time and Space
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[email]giftdomingo@yahoo.co.uk[/email]Posted 10-20-2011 at 07:09 PM by giftlove4u
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Boy am I late on this one...I doubt it would have worked anyways...
She or it, would be happier with a more 'normal' soul...or friend...Posted 04-05-2012 at 09:37 PM by Time and Space
