How some EA woman can fall prey to the hood...
We've all seen the following...
Your driving through, or on the edge of the 'rough' side of town or city...and through your window...you observe a white gal, who other wise looks like she could be from the Brady Bunch family...middle class and clean...
And your thinking...'Ok, what is she doing here?'...
But upon closer examination, she looks comfortable and at ease with her enviornment and the people she's around...
I'm noticing more and more of this where I live...as the line between 'white hood' and 'black hood' seems to be merging...economic woes being what is blurring that line..
One possible reason why many white women are ending up in the 'black hood' is 'drugs'...it starts off inocent enough...maybe at a party, where a friend introduces drug A, B or C...from there the urge to use that drug becomes stronger...lady runs out of money, and so now all she has to barter with is 'her body'...in other words, sexual favor for drugs...
It's a sad sequence of events...the white lady will be lured to the hood for drugs, feeling a sense of 'invincibility'..."after all, I'm white and their black...they should be lucky to have me"...
And it's that sense of artifiscal social hierchy, that their in control because their white, that ends up being their social undoing...
Bottom line, the hood, any hood, doesn't care what color you are, or how highly you think of yourself...it, they, certain elements within, will drain you of everything you got, starting with your money, then your pride and self respect, then of hope...until there's nothing left but a emotionaless shell of one's former self...
I see this all the time...white and black women who still think their in control, walking down the sidewalk in the hood, looking aged, beyond their years..(a 23 year old looking 65, due to drug use...it's a sad sight to see)...
But they continue to convince themselves that their 'beautiful' and in control...but what you or I observe is someone who's face is droopy, body as thin and malnurished as a pipe...teeth falling out, walking, stumbling somewhere to get another 'hit'...
But as their bodies deteriate...it becomes harder for them 'turn trick' for a hit...as must guys aren't that desperate to trade drugs for a anarexic, SD addict....
It's sad...so sad to observe this...but you see it every day in the hood...
You often observe them stumbling around or trying to walk with pride, in the early morning hours 3-7 am...as your going to work, and whomever they were with is done with them...and sends them on their way with one more 'high'....
In their minds, their in control...and still look 'beautiful'...but in reality...their one bad hit away from death....
Stay away from drugs people...I don't care what color you are...
(sorry, once again I find myself drifting into different themes...so we'll just let it flow wherever it may or needs too)...
I've seen it countless times...where white middle class gals, come to the hood, thinking they can 'handle it'...thinking 'their in control'...just to end up like everyone else...lost, used and spent...
Preditors in the hood prey on such arrogance...it's their specialty...to be able to use and humiliate you, while allowing you to feel that your still in control...
Almost like a porn star who's in a scene with 8 men in a porn shoot, all the while being told she's the star and in control...while allowing 8 other men to do unthinkable things to her body...but as long as the directors make her feel that what she's doing is 'art' or 'respectable'...she allows it...
It's trickery...and there's a lot of trickery in the hood..
And this trickery will turn your life upside down, if you let it get the better of you...
There is a preditorial element within the hood, that you must watch out for...as with any community...
I'm not saying everytime you see a white lady in the hood, that's the path she's going down...nor am I saying that every or even any loving mixed couple in the hood is together simply due to narcotics...for there are plenty of white couples who can be together and do drugs, and or black couples...
I simply wanted to explain a darker side of what happens to some in that scenerio before I move onto 'interacial dating in the hood'...and or elsewhere...and some of the positive things I see...how some interacial couples actually come together to help themselves over come whatever...
Not all is grim...I have observed positive things as well with interacial dating...but will have to get to that later...and I've since changed the title of this post...
Sometimes you just never know where your going to go, until you actually start writing...
Your driving through, or on the edge of the 'rough' side of town or city...and through your window...you observe a white gal, who other wise looks like she could be from the Brady Bunch family...middle class and clean...
And your thinking...'Ok, what is she doing here?'...
But upon closer examination, she looks comfortable and at ease with her enviornment and the people she's around...
I'm noticing more and more of this where I live...as the line between 'white hood' and 'black hood' seems to be merging...economic woes being what is blurring that line..
One possible reason why many white women are ending up in the 'black hood' is 'drugs'...it starts off inocent enough...maybe at a party, where a friend introduces drug A, B or C...from there the urge to use that drug becomes stronger...lady runs out of money, and so now all she has to barter with is 'her body'...in other words, sexual favor for drugs...
It's a sad sequence of events...the white lady will be lured to the hood for drugs, feeling a sense of 'invincibility'..."after all, I'm white and their black...they should be lucky to have me"...
And it's that sense of artifiscal social hierchy, that their in control because their white, that ends up being their social undoing...
Bottom line, the hood, any hood, doesn't care what color you are, or how highly you think of yourself...it, they, certain elements within, will drain you of everything you got, starting with your money, then your pride and self respect, then of hope...until there's nothing left but a emotionaless shell of one's former self...
I see this all the time...white and black women who still think their in control, walking down the sidewalk in the hood, looking aged, beyond their years..(a 23 year old looking 65, due to drug use...it's a sad sight to see)...
But they continue to convince themselves that their 'beautiful' and in control...but what you or I observe is someone who's face is droopy, body as thin and malnurished as a pipe...teeth falling out, walking, stumbling somewhere to get another 'hit'...
But as their bodies deteriate...it becomes harder for them 'turn trick' for a hit...as must guys aren't that desperate to trade drugs for a anarexic, SD addict....
It's sad...so sad to observe this...but you see it every day in the hood...
You often observe them stumbling around or trying to walk with pride, in the early morning hours 3-7 am...as your going to work, and whomever they were with is done with them...and sends them on their way with one more 'high'....
In their minds, their in control...and still look 'beautiful'...but in reality...their one bad hit away from death....
Stay away from drugs people...I don't care what color you are...
(sorry, once again I find myself drifting into different themes...so we'll just let it flow wherever it may or needs too)...
I've seen it countless times...where white middle class gals, come to the hood, thinking they can 'handle it'...thinking 'their in control'...just to end up like everyone else...lost, used and spent...
Preditors in the hood prey on such arrogance...it's their specialty...to be able to use and humiliate you, while allowing you to feel that your still in control...
Almost like a porn star who's in a scene with 8 men in a porn shoot, all the while being told she's the star and in control...while allowing 8 other men to do unthinkable things to her body...but as long as the directors make her feel that what she's doing is 'art' or 'respectable'...she allows it...
It's trickery...and there's a lot of trickery in the hood..
And this trickery will turn your life upside down, if you let it get the better of you...
There is a preditorial element within the hood, that you must watch out for...as with any community...
I'm not saying everytime you see a white lady in the hood, that's the path she's going down...nor am I saying that every or even any loving mixed couple in the hood is together simply due to narcotics...for there are plenty of white couples who can be together and do drugs, and or black couples...
I simply wanted to explain a darker side of what happens to some in that scenerio before I move onto 'interacial dating in the hood'...and or elsewhere...and some of the positive things I see...how some interacial couples actually come together to help themselves over come whatever...
Not all is grim...I have observed positive things as well with interacial dating...but will have to get to that later...and I've since changed the title of this post...
Sometimes you just never know where your going to go, until you actually start writing...
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