Help...married but in love with another guy!!
Posted 06-15-2008 at 05:31 PM by Brina20
well im 17 nd got married because my mom told me 2...! it waz ok till i realized im in love with ma best friend. nd da part dat makes it worse is he is in love with me aswell. i tried everythin to 4get him but i cnt. my days r so bad if i dnt see him for one day. i justhave to think about him nd i cnt stop smilin. nd been with him is like better then everythin else, when im with him i dnt care anymore i just wana stay with him. his eyes nd smiles they r pictured in ma head nd just wont go away. we never did anything we coudnt, i woudnt hve been fair to my husband his not a bad guy.
i just duno wat to do. should i leave ma husband or should i stay with him. i mean i dnt love him, da only reason im stayin wid him is because my mom would kill me if i leave him...!
i feel lyk walkin in circles nd going no where with my life.
i just duno wat to do. should i leave ma husband or should i stay with him. i mean i dnt love him, da only reason im stayin wid him is because my mom would kill me if i leave him...!
i feel lyk walkin in circles nd going no where with my life.
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why would you marry someone just because your mom said too come on do you obvesly dont know athing a v=bout marriage or love you need to grow upPosted 06-16-2008 at 11:30 AM by Cindys71
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Do your husband a favor and divorce him. If you can't love him, then he needs to find someone who will. He deserves better.Posted 06-16-2008 at 11:37 AM by SanAntoQT
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My suggestion would be to divorce, focus on your education and strengthen your life before you decide to join another union.Posted 06-25-2008 at 10:20 AM by Acevaz
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Vowels before vows....Posted 08-27-2008 at 01:32 AM by GCSTroop
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There are a few things I would tell my 17 year old daughter to do...becoming married would never be one of them. You are not old enough, emotionally mature enough, or responsible enough at 17 for a marriage. You are ready at that age for many things, driving & working among those things. Starting a family should wait until you have all the "young" out of your system.
Your mate for life should be your best friend. If your husband is not the one for you, be honest with him and your mother. If she puts it on your shoulders to make as heavy a decision as marriage with your life, well then she has put it in your hands to make any decision you feel is best for your life. She has made you an adult, and it is time for you to take on that role - so be a woman about it. Do not cheat, do not be bullied - be honest and do what is best for you.Posted 08-28-2008 at 09:12 AM by poconoproud
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What's the underlying reason your Mother made you get married? At 17, things are so up in the air for most. Finishing school, job, college, and what you want to be in life. I find it hard to believe that anyone would want their daughter to be a wife at the age of 17, especially with so many opportunities for women. Although too young to marry, you are still old enough to make your own choice about marriage.
And remember, what is done in the dark always comes to light.
So be honest with everyone.Posted 08-28-2008 at 02:24 PM by Jlyn5669
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One rule of thumb: learn the English language and alphabet before committing to anything for the rest of your life.Posted 10-19-2011 at 02:06 PM by shughes28
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that was painful to read. but defiantly end it, dont drag it out.Posted 04-22-2012 at 04:39 PM by bored369
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I'm 17 and I got married because my mom told me to! It was OK until I realized that I'm in love with my best friend. The part that makes it even worse is that he is in love with me as well. I tried everything to forget about him, but I can't. My days are so bad if I don't see him. I just think about him and I cant stop smiling. Being with him is better than everything else. I just don't care anymore, I just want to stay with him. I picture his eyes and smile in my head and they just won't go away. We never did anything we couldn't because it wouldn't have been fair to my husband who is not a bad guy.
I just don't know what to do. Should I leave my husband or should I stay with him? I don't love him and the only reason I'm staying with him is because my mom would kill me if I left him!
I feel like I'm walking in circles and not going anywhere with my life.Posted 04-22-2012 at 08:52 PM by Zucchinii
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17 year olds are very rarely in love for life
At 17 this 2nd guy is probably your 1st love. And though they are powerful(or so it seems), it's just that this is the 1st crush you've had reciprocated.
You need to focus on you and find out what your interests are. Did you graduate high school, dream of college days, & then a job where you would be able to support yourself without a man.
That way when you had spread your wings & really had seen what you might be capable of, then you would be able to CHOOSE a man.Posted 01-19-2016 at 02:32 AM by God & His word
