Looking and feeling good about yourself isn't a crime...
Posted 04-18-2010 at 11:46 PM by Time and Space
Hi, well I've somewhat been ostracized on here...but I don't mind...it's like someone or some people go around telling others not to like me...and why? Cause of their ignorance...not mine...
My post are respectable and deal with a variety of topics from science to politics to history...
My manners are good, I never swear or curse or demene anyone through name calling...(I've been called plenty of names)...
But due to how some percieve my photos, I've been deemed 'radioactive'...well tough...
My photos don't hurt no one...and I think their quite beautiful and charming and artistic and glowing...
For years I shunned myself and body...and I think it's neat that I've finally discovered that I too can look dazzling if I so choose...
Why that bothers others is beyond me...
It's my body so I figure why not enjoy it, as a artist would a canvess, before it gets old and wrinkly and worn...your only young once...why should I hide or ignore any side of myself while others are allowed to explore theirs?
To me that's selfish...what, I'm only suppose to feel ugly, rough and tough? as to not upset others sensibilities??
Well do they know the burden that comes from carrying that weight? the stigma that comes from it? and the hostility?
It's not fair that I should have to be a 'monster' so that someone else can feel 'gorgious'...if one is gorgious, than it shouldn't matter how many others are gorgious also...
I can't please everyone...
Women wear pants, drive trucks, wear suits and do all the things only males use to do...but yet they aren't considered 'gay' because of it...trends, styles and taboos change over time...
And now guys are even forced to wear these long ridiculious looking shorts that come down to their calves...cause to wear shorts that come above the knees would be considered 'gay'...
But yet look at any tv show from the 80's and look how short guys shorts were...Like Magnum PI...
Once again it seems more and more areas of style and fashion are becoming 'feminized'....soon what is a guy left with? Blue jeans and a white T-shirt?
I just don't think it fair that women can explore the whole full spectrum of dress and style from manly to feminine, and never have their sexual orientation questioned...but let a guy where a skirt and he's considered 'hyper-gay'...totally unfair...
But since when do people care about being fair..it's easier to judge, spread rumors and lie....
Oh well...at least I'm still me...
If that's not good enough for people...to bad...
My post are respectable and deal with a variety of topics from science to politics to history...
My manners are good, I never swear or curse or demene anyone through name calling...(I've been called plenty of names)...
But due to how some percieve my photos, I've been deemed 'radioactive'...well tough...
My photos don't hurt no one...and I think their quite beautiful and charming and artistic and glowing...
For years I shunned myself and body...and I think it's neat that I've finally discovered that I too can look dazzling if I so choose...
Why that bothers others is beyond me...
It's my body so I figure why not enjoy it, as a artist would a canvess, before it gets old and wrinkly and worn...your only young once...why should I hide or ignore any side of myself while others are allowed to explore theirs?
To me that's selfish...what, I'm only suppose to feel ugly, rough and tough? as to not upset others sensibilities??
Well do they know the burden that comes from carrying that weight? the stigma that comes from it? and the hostility?
It's not fair that I should have to be a 'monster' so that someone else can feel 'gorgious'...if one is gorgious, than it shouldn't matter how many others are gorgious also...
I can't please everyone...
Women wear pants, drive trucks, wear suits and do all the things only males use to do...but yet they aren't considered 'gay' because of it...trends, styles and taboos change over time...
And now guys are even forced to wear these long ridiculious looking shorts that come down to their calves...cause to wear shorts that come above the knees would be considered 'gay'...
But yet look at any tv show from the 80's and look how short guys shorts were...Like Magnum PI...
Once again it seems more and more areas of style and fashion are becoming 'feminized'....soon what is a guy left with? Blue jeans and a white T-shirt?
I just don't think it fair that women can explore the whole full spectrum of dress and style from manly to feminine, and never have their sexual orientation questioned...but let a guy where a skirt and he's considered 'hyper-gay'...totally unfair...
But since when do people care about being fair..it's easier to judge, spread rumors and lie....
Oh well...at least I'm still me...
If that's not good enough for people...to bad...
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It amazes me how anyone could look upon my photos and come to the conclusion 'I'm gay'...
(shows how differently we all percieve ourselves and the world around us)..
In no way shape or form, do I percieve a male looking 'cute' as being gay...
No more or less than I percieve a rough ugly male as being gay...
It may invoke a sexual response from another male, but that's the other males problem, not the guy who happens to look 'cute'...
Gay, is not a look, it's an impulse...
Most gay males look 'straight'...'normal'...or like 'jocks'...
They're idistinguishable from regular society...
If I were really 'gay'...you wouldn't know it...unless I told you...
My photos are simply an expression of self art...no more no less...
Intellegent people know that...insecure hetro males do not...(duh)..
cute, does not mean gay, costume, does not mean gay, theatrics, do not mean gay, art, does not mean gay...
So simple...but insecure hetro males just can't grasp that fact...
Oh well, let them continue to sweat, and waddle in their own insecurities, and false definitions...Posted 04-23-2011 at 01:20 PM by Time and Space
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Another thing I notice a certain demagraphic is good at doing on here...and that is 'lying' and or 'exagerating' and or 'fabricating' negitave or bad ideas about an induvisual...that are totally unsubstantuated, beyond their own induvisual dislike of you, for whatever reason...
But just because someone doesn't like you, do to style or opinion...does not make myself, or anyone else 'bad'...
But that doesn't seem to stop some on here...who feel totally justified in their 'lies' about you...they whisper behind your back, and try to frighten others away from you to....
To me...that's foul...and what I would call being a monster....
Spreading viscious unsubstantuated ideas about someone that are totally incorrect...that's just evil...and very self serving...
But it's done on here all the time...not just here...but else where...sad to say...that's just the way of man and woman....Posted 09-17-2011 at 01:22 PM by Time and Space
