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Hello, My name is Caterina. Okay, it really isn't, but it's close to my real name. After more than 15 years as a drink server (better known as a cocktail waitress) in a casino, I've realized it's time to get a real job. The money was great as a drink server, but I just can't make myself do that degrading job anymore. After two and a half years working casino surveillance, I've decided IT work might be the career for me. I enjoy the work I do with computers and compared to the people around me I seem to have a knack for it. And an interest.

Originally this blog was simply going to be about my attempt to transition from a dead end job in casino surveillance to a career in IT within the next year. However, personal issues surrounding my family keep popping up lately. I said "good-bye" to my parents and two of my siblings 10 years ago. I haven't seen or heard much from my whole family in that decade. I left that life behind. Now, I find myself running into and getting phone calls from family members I haven't seen in a long time. I recently got a Facebook page. I've gone from this quite separated, compartmentalized life, to all the moments of my life touching each other on Facebook. I don't know what will become of it.

Will the next year be a success story or a train wreck? I'm rooting for a success story, but, it seems, train wrecks are easier to make. I hope this blog will hold me accountable and push me on to the life I'd rather live.

Wish me luck.

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People in the Surveillance Room
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Rating: 2 votes, 5.00 average.

The Game Plan

Posted 08-10-2010 at 08:45 PM by Inconversant (A Year in Transition)

Okay, here's the game plan. I got to get off grave shift. Grave shift is nice and quiet and undemanding, but working until eight in the morning is rotting my brain and destroying my health. There is a little shift shuffling going on right now in our department. A 4 day, 10 hour shift is available, so, I'm going to take it. It's basically an 11am to 9pm shift, Saturday through Tuesday. I'll start that on the week of August 23rd.

I've also gained a couple pounds from sitting on my...
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Rating: 2 votes, 5.00 average.

As Stupid as Einstein

Posted 08-08-2010 at 11:50 AM by Inconversant (A Year in Transition)
Updated 08-09-2010 at 08:31 AM by Inconversant

When I was about 10 years old, I was teased by my older siblings for being dumb. Now, that’s what older siblings do, especially to the youngest of 5. I probably wouldn’t have a memory of it at all except for an event that followed.

A few months after this sibling hazing episode, I received my report card from school. It was all A’s except for one B. I hurried home to show my brothers and sisters how smart I was. With the documented evidence of my brain power in hand,...
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Rating: 2 votes, 5.00 average.

The True Market Value of an Idle Asset, Or, It's a Breast and a Leg Job

Posted 08-06-2010 at 02:08 PM by Inconversant (A Year in Transition)
Updated 08-07-2010 at 04:10 PM by Inconversant

I have pretty eyes, great legs, and a really nice rack. All the aforementioned are cash cows for a cocktail waitress. Let's face it, the big tips weren't about prompt delivery of a drink. And I don't have a particularly charming personality. Not for a cocktail waitress anyway. I wasn't one of those drink servers who could act amused over an obnoxious come on or a rude sexual remark from a stranger. I avoided any behavior or interaction that might encourage a guy to act like an ass for my attention....
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Rating: 3 votes, 5.00 average.

So Sad their Skin Hurts.

Posted 07-31-2010 at 10:40 AM by Inconversant (A Year in Transition)

After working a grave shift, I took some information regarding a review to the Casino Shift Manager, Jack. Jack is one of our better managers. He was sitting in his office when I found him, looking a little lost. I gave him the information on the review, so he could do the follow up, then we talked a little about the casino, in general. He began to tell me how miserable he was and how he was thinking about quitting. He told me a little bit about all the things that he thought was wrong with our...
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Rating: 2 votes, 5.00 average.

It's Not Just a Dead End Job. This is What Rotting in Hell Feels Like.

Posted 07-23-2010 at 07:16 PM by Inconversant (A Year in Transition)

The casino business has been hit hard by this economy. Toby, our boss, appears to be having a nervous breakdown. Everyday he's yelling at one of us because we did exactly what he told us to do. Larry gave notice. His last day is July 30th. Albert is so fed up he's willing to take a $6 an hour ditch digging job to get out of here. June, who just spent 2 weeks in ICU with double pneumonia, thinks she'll be back to work by the 1st of August. I'm the only one who believes her.

I want...
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