Here you are trying to decide the future of your family. Your trying to find the answer to the when, where and why. I've been there and it stinks. I never thought I would call Alabama home. In fact, I had never even visited Alabama before my husband took a job here two years ago. I was born and raised in the mid-west and shuttered at the idea of raising my own children in the south. As I sit here now I will say it has been the best thing that ever happened to me. It's very refreshing how "southern...