Can anyone tell me which town would be better to live in.?We are looking for a house that is 4 bedrooms with a fenced in yard. Thinking about Apex, Cary,Wafe Forest, and North Raleigh.Want a small town community .Dont want to drive any major highways to go shopping .DO you know of any good community collages in the area?

We are thinking of moving to to NC Wake county area .WE are looking for a small town not having to drive on major highways to get to stores. I have collage age sons who wiil be going to acommunity collage. would like to be a short drive for them. Ive been reading alot about Wake Forest .Someone told us that you have to drive though a bad town to get out of Wake Forest. Does any one know if that is true? If so what town? Are there any houses IN Wafe Forest for sale that arent in a community? WE are...