Leaving this life of being gay, one that you've known since you were a teenager is not always going to be easy or even fun. Giving up the desires that fulfill you sexually is tough. And at times it doesn't even seem fair. Keep one thing in mind, especially during the tough times, it will get better, it will get easier with time. But you have to give it time.

When I decided to leave the gay life I couldn't find anyone on either side to support me. 'It's just the way you are', they'd...

If you've made that first step of realizing you can't do this on your own and need Jesus to step in and take control, well done. It is only by His grace and mercy that change is truly possible.

Once you've made a choice to follow Jesus it's imperative to find a church that you fit into. My recommendation would be to search your area for non-denominational churches, check out their website, if they have online messages, watch them. While it doesn't give you the overall experience of...

Leaving the life of homosexuality is not an easy one. Many have tried and failed. I tried leaving the life many times, only to find myself back where I started. I gave up many times and figured it just wasn't possible to change my thoughts and desires.

I didn't believe it was safe to talk to a pastor or anyone in the church about my desires because I assumed I would be judged. I hadn't talked to anyone but just thought because I was living a life outside of the social acceptance...

I'm challenged regularly when I make the statement, "I used to be gay". The majority of the people will tell me that is not possible and that I really never was gay. My reply to that is, "you didn't live my life and know the pornographic thoughts and sexual desires I'd have as a teen and young adult."

For most of my life I felt shunned by the 'straight' population and then also by the 'gay' population. I really had no idea where or if I fit in. I was so lost and...

After a few years of inactivity I decided it's time to pick up where I left off.

Since my last post so much has happened in our world in the arena of homosexuality. As a people group, gay people now have more rights including the right to legally marry one another.

Marrying a person of the same sex is simply put so very not right. It's not merely because of my beliefs in Christ but there is something inside my spirit that cries out against it. Then again, maybe it's...