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Explains why you end up with unavailable partners, and gives advice on breaking the pattern.
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The E factor in Unavailable Partner Fatigue

Posted 10-02-2008 at 10:52 AM by Doctor Jeanette (Unavailable Partner Fatigue!)

[FONT=Times New Roman]By Dr. Jeanette Raymond[/FONT]

[B][FONT=Times New Roman]The World Is Like A Noah’ s Ark - Designed for Pairs of People[/FONT][/B]
[FONT=Times New Roman]When you look at the people around you what do you see? I bet your lens is filled with scenes of twosomes everywhere. The world seems to be a Noah’s ark, designed only for pairs of people - double occupancy rooms in hotels, tables for two in restaurants, a pair of tickets to the hottest concert in town,...
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The U factor in Unavailable Partner Fatigue

Posted 09-24-2008 at 07:14 PM by Doctor Jeanette (Unavailable Partner Fatigue!)

[FONT=Times New Roman]By Dr. Jeanette Raymond.[/FONT]

[FONT=Times New Roman]I have shown how [B]F[/B]ear of being unlovable leads to the [B]A[/B]nticipation of the past repeating itself. Waiting for the axe to fall makes [B]T[/B]rusting a torturous idea.. Staying with insatiable [B]I[/B]dealism means you can bypass that torture, live in a fantasy world and allow yourself to have the fairy tale romance in a safe zone. But that only lasts for a while. When fantasy and reality collide...
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The G factor in Unavailable Partner Fatigue

Posted 09-20-2008 at 02:55 PM by Doctor Jeanette (Unavailable Partner Fatigue!)

[B][FONT=Times New Roman]By Dr. Jeanette Raymond[/FONT][/B]

[FONT=Times New Roman]We have looked at the first four elements of the fatigue that comes from being drawn to unavailable lovers.[/FONT]
[FONT=Times New Roman]The F factor - fear of being unlovable[/FONT]
[FONT=Times New Roman]The A factor- anticipation of the past repeating itself[/FONT]
[FONT=Times New Roman]The T factor- the torture of trusting[/FONT]
[FONT=Times New Roman]The I factor - insatiable...
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The I factor in Unavailable Partner Fatigue

Posted 09-15-2008 at 03:50 PM by Doctor Jeanette (Unavailable Partner Fatigue!)

[FONT=Times New Roman]In the previous three posts I described the first three ingredients of the fatigue that comes from having a history of emotionally unavailable partners.[/FONT]
[FONT=Times New Roman]The F factor - fear of being unlovable[/FONT]
[FONT=Times New Roman]The A factor- anticipation of the past repeating itself[/FONT]
[FONT=Times New Roman]The T factor- the torture of trusting[/FONT]

[FONT=Times New Roman]This time I focus on the fourth factor - the...
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The T factor in Unavailable Partner Fatigue

Posted 09-09-2008 at 05:21 PM by Doctor Jeanette (Unavailable Partner Fatigue!)
Updated 09-30-2008 at 06:39 PM by Doctor Jeanette (Post In Category)

[FONT=Times New Roman]By Dr. Jeanette Raymond[/FONT]

[FONT=Times New Roman]In my first post I discussed the [B]F[/B] [B]factor, Fear of Being Found Unlovable.[/B] Next I described the [B]A factor -Anticipation of the past repeating itself. [/B][/FONT]

[FONT=Times New Roman]In this post I outline the [B][I]T factor[/I] - Trusting equals Torture.[/B][/FONT]

[FONT=Times New Roman][B]Is He Cheating On Me?[/B][/FONT]
[FONT=Times New Roman]Watching Eric...
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