Originally Posted by Bvc654

I just want to know what I'm doing wrong. A big number of men I meet on OLD ghost me after the first date. I'm in my early 20s, slim & not ugly but not drop dead gorgeous. At first they show interest, they ask me out or they do it after I say hi first. After the first date they often unmatch, some of them as fast as 10 minutes after having said goodbye. Alternatively after that they don't text anything at all & don't reply if I reach out, or we go on another date and that's where it ends.