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Old 07-10-2019, 03:26 PM
 
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No. there's a reason, even if i don't agree with it. then it's just incompatibility.
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Old 07-10-2019, 04:13 PM
 
Location: Inland California Desert
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They opened a new account, so they got around your having blocked both of their prior accounts by using this new one to send their new friend request from. . . . IF they want to apologize for their prior behavior, they can send the apology to you via Facebook Messenger . . . unless you have blocked this new account of their's, too.


You can't really know that the account is being used by both of them, though. Just one of them could have opened the account & be using it . . . perhaps even claiming to be the other one.


?Would I send a Friend Request to someone who earlier blocked me?
Certainly not out of the blue! First I would want to know the reason why I was blocked, so I could consider apologizing for whatever it was. Then, only if the recipient accepted such apology would I even begin to consider sending them another Friend Request. You don't need to be a Facebook Friend to use Facebook Messenger, though. I prefer to keep my # of FBFs low, but I correspond with other people on facebook, too.
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Old 07-10-2019, 07:55 PM
 
Location: North Carolina
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Says who? lol. Maybe their spouse don’t use FB much and choose having a joint account.
Not after previously having separate ones. Google it, this is actually such a common assumption that it's a meme. If you're sharing a FB account with your spouse, everyone thinks someone cheated even if they didn't. At the very least, there are probably deep trust issues.

Here's all the memes: https://www.google.com/search?biw=15...24.AZdODDGfiZY
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Old 07-11-2019, 06:48 PM
 
Location: Colorado
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I will just say that it's interesting hearing people say that joint account means cheating.

And I will say that the question of cheating was the crux of why I shut them both down all those years ago. Didn't know anything about the possibility then, wasn't going to get dragged into the drama 25 years later.
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Old 07-11-2019, 08:02 PM
 
Location: USA
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Not after previously having separate ones. Google it, this is actually such a common assumption that it's a meme. If you're sharing a FB account with your spouse, everyone thinks someone cheated even if they didn't. At the very least, there are probably deep trust issues.

Here's all the memes: https://www.google.com/search?biw=15...24.AZdODDGfiZY
Some couples have joint FB from the moment they signed up. I have seen some couples setting up a joint fb account after having individual fb accounts. Those ones are more suspicious. If cheating wasn’t involved, then there’s some deep trust issues going on.

Thanks for the memes. Always fun to look at. lol
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Old 07-11-2019, 09:15 PM
 
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Why would you even consider accepting the request? You haven't heard from them in years. Then questioned you about a situation. Blocked you. Now they are friending you again. Why would you want to do anything with these people? You certainly don't need friends like this.
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Old 07-12-2019, 05:45 AM
 
Location: Colorado
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Why would you even consider accepting the request? You haven't heard from them in years. Then questioned you about a situation. Blocked you. Now they are friending you again. Why would you want to do anything with these people? You certainly don't need friends like this.
I'm not--and it was me who blocked them on their individual accounts. They created a new joint account and sent me a friend request from that. That's what shocked me, was that they had to realize I blocked them, yet they pop up a few years later and send another friend request.
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Old 07-15-2019, 08:46 AM
 
Location: Midwest
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I don't know. I don't live my life in Facebook.
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Old 07-15-2019, 09:13 AM
 
Location: SoCal again
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I could not think of any reason why you would want to get/stay in contact with such people.

Joint account - not necessarily cheating - but clearly a huge relationship problem between them.
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Old 07-15-2019, 06:53 PM
 
Location: UK
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No, I would not.
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