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Originally Posted by sadskylar
Hello, unfortunately I have the same problem. I can't stop swallowing when I'm around people even when I'm around my family!! I'm having this problem for more than two years!! It's really driving me crazy. I cry most of the times because of this issue. I was diagnosed with anxiety but I didn't have any medications for this. I didn't know the problem would increase that much I started to become unsocial unlike before. I can't talk to my teachers more than five minutes or do presentations because I keep swallowing over and over nonstop! I dont set next to students so that they wont hear me swallow..It's really embarrassing I can feel that my swallowing causes lots of gross noises but I can't help it what should I do :'( I can't stop thinking about swallowing my own saliva all the time. I'm too embarrassed to tell my parents about this because maybe they would think I have mental problems. I was a social person and I really liked to be around people and do group projects but not anymore because of issue... please help me.. what should I do
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Carry a water bottle at all times and sip a tiny amounts of water while someone is getting close to you?
Then it shouldn’t bother you or anyone else for that matter- you are swallowing because you are just drinking..-
This should come down your anxiety.
Or you could experiment and record your “swallowing noises” in an ambient noise room- like with a small fan running or a quiet tv in the background: don’t record it too close to yourself though- we are all having our personal space- nobody talks face to face.
Pretty sure it may help you realize that it is all in your head?
If it is an intimate partner: just start kissing noises
Don’t get obsessed- increase the ambient noise in the room through music, fan, tv in the background, table top water fountain, loud ticking clock, an air purifier, etc
Or- slightly increase your personal space distance- but do not obsess over your mostly perceived issue.
Or try to focus on something else- like perhaps scent? Much easier to control- so you are re-directing your compulsions to a more manageable one?