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Old 05-06-2022, 03:20 PM
 
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It's now being asked everywhere, it seems. I was used to it in stores, but it happened the other day in a fast-food drive-thru! The round-up would have been 99 cents, so NO (I don't remember what the alleged charity benefitting from that was)... I was sick all night from the food I got there, but I'm sure it was just a coincidence!
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Old 05-06-2022, 07:35 PM
 
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I always say no. I have my own charities. Between so many stores and restaurants, go fund mes, people asking for birthday charities or nonprofits, I finally just went cold turkey and now contribute only to my own things. It’s become overwhelming,
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Old 05-06-2022, 10:07 PM
 
Location: Military City, USA.
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Yep, everybody and their brother has their hand out now-a-days. I am not made of money. I am not a cheapskate or selfish or scrooge. I donate and tithe to charities and organizations I choose. So......I say "no, not today".
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Old 05-07-2022, 06:56 AM
 
Location: Arizona
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I always say no. I have my own charities. Between so many stores and restaurants, go fund mes, people asking for birthday charities or nonprofits, I finally just went cold turkey and now contribute only to my own things. It’s become overwhelming,
Maybe annoying but hardly overwhelming.
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Old 05-07-2022, 07:06 AM
 
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I say no as well. I like to direct my donations and keep track of them, even though we don't itemize anymore. Most of these are absolutely worthy charities, and I understand it's an easy way for them to increase donations from a large population of shoppers for really little cost. But it's not my preferred form of giving.
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Old 05-07-2022, 07:10 AM
 
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I say 'No. Thank you." The employees are usually told to ask. Usually, they don't care what your answer is unless there is some sort of recognition for the responses.

I rarely contribute to organized charity. There is usually so much overhead and the donation doesn't go to those in need. I prefer to help out where I personally see a need.
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Old 05-07-2022, 08:11 AM
 
Location: NC
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I always answer the same way, "If you are truly customer oriented then you should round down, otherwise no." I never say "no Thanks" because I'm not thankful they asked anyway and it certainly wasn't a courtesy.
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Old 05-07-2022, 08:37 AM
 
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Maybe annoying but hardly overwhelming.
It's not "overwhelming" if you make it a policy to just say no, which I do. But one does feel a bit Scrooge-ish.
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Old 05-07-2022, 11:56 AM
 
Location: equator
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Wow, I had forgotten all about this trend, since it doesn't exist down here.

What we do see is jugglers or acrobats at intersections, trying to impress drivers for a coin.
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Old 05-07-2022, 05:01 PM
 
Location: on the wind
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Hmm, it doesn't happen everywhere. Can't recall ever having a vendor ask me this.

"No" is a complete sentence. "No thank you" is a nicer version of it. No further details necessary.
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