Are good dancers better lovers? (women, dance, husband, sex)

[applejuice]

My friend and I were discussing this and she said that hands down a good dancer translates to a better lover vs those that don't dance well.

Comments?

[kinkytoes]

No No and NO! LOL ... no

[miu]

Hmmm... I've never dated a good dancer, and all the men in my life were very satisfying lovers. So for me, I'm not using a guy's dancing skills or lack thereof to determine their potential as a good lover. I find that if there is mutual respect and much affection in the relationship, the bedroom activities are just awesome.

[lovesMountains]

Originally Posted by applejuice

My friend and I were discussing this and she said that hands down a good dancer translates to a better lover vs those that don't dance well.

Comments?

Sounds like a line some guy fed her on the dance floor

[carlitasway]

My husband dances like Steve Martin in The Jerk but is pretty damn good in bed.

[sueprnova]

Drummers....independent use of all 4 limbs

[Huckleberry3911948]

no correlation whatsoever. sex is in your head dance is in your feet.
most skilled dancers are loveless narcissts who dance very well.

[Twinkle Toes]

Originally Posted by Huckleberry3911948

no correlation whatsoever. sex is in your head dance is in your feet.
most skilled dancers are loveless narcissts who dance very well.

You tell 'em, Huck!

[shania]

I'm going to stick up for the dancers somewhat. Good dancers are extremely in touch with the way their body moves and feels when it moves--when they dance they control and create muscle memory in their limbs, abdomen, etc so they can execute movement with precision. This type of physical coordination would be a plus in the bedroom as well.
Also, a good dancer feels the rhythm and nuances of the music they are dancing to, in order to use their body to express the emotions the music evokes.
My experience with dancing was that it was an emotional/physical expression that was often very powerful and sensual. Executing choreography, when you become one with the music and your whole body just performs for you the way you've envisioned it and practiced it, is extremely satisfying and liberating. It's a high that is very close to the feeling good sex provides.

So that said, I think that many dancers are very sensual and passionate people in general, which is why they are good at their craft, and this would translate to some extent to make them good lovers as well, at least in the physical sense. (And think about the positions they're able to get in because they're so flexible, lol.)

That doesn't exclude nondancers from being highly satisfying lovers, of course.

[Connecticut Pam]

Quite an odd question but a fun one! My ex husband danced like an Octopus on CRACK...I mean arms and legs everywhere, shoulders hunched, I was embarrassed....he was probably the best ever as far as lovers..OH...I forgot...He got lots of practice with other women so maybe that is why he was so adept at love making. SURE WAS NOT HIS DANCE SKILLS...I am lmao at the image of it all

My present hubs doesn't dance at all...does something I call "The Washing Machine"...stands in one spot, arms at waist and goes back and forth...just like a "Whirpool Top Loader"...LOL His skills in other areas are beyond compare...nuff said.